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Wellness » Love. We are seeing large age gaps in the dating pool and not just the typical old-man-younger-woman narrative. For example, a AARP study reported that 34 percent of women over 39 years old were dating younger men.
Add in the popularization of divorce over the last 50 years and the introduction of dating apps and matters of love, sex, and how we connect are utterly transformed. Love is a melting pot. I find it refreshing that society has begun to validate the simple fact that relationships no matter how short or long can still be meaningful. Permanence is replaced with living in the present a mindful act and appreciating things for what they are now.
They say nothing lasts forever , and while I do see long-term, committed, monogamous relationships which is amazing! Apps and websites have been a major catalyst in the dating community, and the doors have opened for all demographics. No wonder the dating age range has gotten so wide! It is an exciting time for experimenting with your love life.
But just because you like them does not always mean society will view your relationship in the same positive light — and this is something to prepare for. Unfortunately, even though we are progressing as a society, there are still people who are judgemental when it comes to obvious age differences in dating. Pete Davidson, 25, and Kate Beckingsale, 45, are the newest couple to experience this, with Davidson defending their relationship on Saturday Night Live by providing a laundry list of famous couples to come before them.
But, are we all experimenting with people outside our immediate age bracket? I asked my peers if they had ever been in a relationship with a ificant age difference for reference I defined ificant as 10 years , and I was surprised to find that every friend I asked and some of my Twitter followers said they had. I liked the idea of us more than I liked him. I cried both times I ended it. She was important, and I am grateful for the time spent. He became insecure and jealous. I had to dig him out of the MGTOW [men going their own way] mindset, but he was so far gone it eventually drove me away.
It was a very positive experience and he set the bar with future relationships and taught me what relationships should actually be like. For three years it was healthy, faithful, and hardest when I began outgrowing him. We have a fantastic relationship. The dynamic is dynamic. The love tank is full. Every day is brilliant. The last response really stood out to me, dynamic being the keyword here. There will always be ups and downs in a relationship , but when there is a ificant age gap, this aspect can be amplified. If you have the awareness, romantic connection, and emotional maturity to navigate the obstacles life throws at you, does it really matter how old your partner is?
But the roles switched between us, which helped keep the dynamic exciting. My partner shared a lot of personal insight with me, which he gained through experiences before we met. He taught me about life and exposed me to stimulating situations I would not have been able to experience alone at the time. In return, I inspired him to think outside the box, softened his edges, and appreciated his giving nature. We truly celebrated each other for exactly who we were, and that was very special to me. That being said, one major difficulty of having a large difference in age is making sure the morals, values, and life goals of both people are synced.
Do you both want a family? This attitude in a relationship usually contributes to codependency and controlling behaviors not cute! These are major no-nos when your goal is to have a healthy relationship. Another concerning topic that has come up in my research is people feeling fetishized by their partners. A friend of mine felt her partner was objectifying her due to her young age. If you ever find yourself in a relationship where you feel made into a sex object by your partner due to your age, race, gender or sexuality, please identify this as a major red flag and reconsider the future of the relationship.
Every person deserves to be respected and appreciated by their partner, not viewed as an object or prize. It is important to like the person you are dating, not just the idea of them. Knowing of all of this, how much does an age gap actually matter in a relationship? Ex-spouses and children can also affect the dynamic of the relationship. Ex-spouses may have a condescending approach that dating a younger person may just be a fling.
In this situation it is important to treat your partner and your child with distinguishable differences, establishing boundaries, and protecting each relationship role. Keep an open mind and be open to discussing the relationship with the people you care about. Remember why you are invested in your partner, what you like about them, and how they make you happy. Be sure to communicate this to your partner and your respective audience i. The confidence this creates will serve as protection under lingering eyes in public arenas.
At the end of the day, the only people that matter in your relationship are you and your partner. Your business is your own. How you both choose to conquer these obstacles will determine the outcome of your relationship. Keep your love tank full! When you truly connect with someone, nothing should stand in the way of nurturing that — all the rules that once defined dating are out the window. Shelby Sells. Wellness Love. Address. Let's Do This! Most Popular. By Shelby Sells. By Jancee Dunn. By Daley Quinn. By Elizabeth Bennett.
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